Cheers for the pics. You look exactly how I thought you would somehow. I knew you worked in I.T. But I knew you wouldn't look like a nerd!
See you've been busy in the garden since you moved, with the tree stump gone and no doubt replacing the fencing at the bottom. Nice to see that you're also thinking of your girls with the trampoline and the swing.
Have you demolished a patio to replace it, or was there an old lean-to conservatory there? If you're making a patio at that height you'll need a mountain of hardcore and sand. I did something similar at my old garden. 2 tonnes of sand & probably more than that in hardcore to make an elevated patio, whilst keeping an eye on the DPC of the house.
I think the landscaping is the most important thing in a garden. Plants will come and go (especially tender ones!), but if get your patio, lawn, fences and steps right to begin with, you won't go far wrong.
Cheers for the pics!